Paano mo gusto ligawan?(girls) or Paano mo gusto manligaw(boys)?

very well said @gboy

for me simple/small details matter.. Usually ganun sa girls, makita nila na yung maliliit na bagay na nagagawa ng guy OK 'yun. Like makakaalala ka ng birthday niya, mga bagay na ayaw nyang ginagawa sa kanya, concern etc. lalo na when a man is good on words (sincerely) which is very rare.

At gUsto ko talaga binibigyan ako ng food. Ewan ko, kahit na afford ko 'yun mas naaappreciate ko kapag binibigay. Wag lang Max's fried chicken puhleease

icemint wrote:Wag lang Max's fried chicken puhleease

super like.

icemint wrote:very well said @gboy

for me simple/small details matter.. Usually ganun sa girls, makita nila na yung maliliit na bagay na nagagawa ng guy OK 'yun. Like makakaalala ka ng birthday niya, mga bagay na ayaw nyang ginagawa sa kanya, concern etc. lalo na when a man is good on words (sincerely) which is very rare.

suuuuper true! hahaha! kahit yung simpleng ikaw ang maunang magtext sa kanya, napapansin ng girls yun, minsan small things are the sweetest

sana nga ganyan.
kaya lang.....

hindi rin kasi lahat tulad nyo.
may mga babaeng sinasabi na ganyan eh okay na sa kanila but the real thing is, ang hirap nila isatisfy sa mga bagay-bagay kahit todo efforts na ang guy.

may mga ganun lang din na girls. at may mga guys lang din na napapagod.

vice versa yun. kung pangit ang pinapakita ng guy, pangit din ang makukuha nya sa girl hanggang pumangit ang relationship nila.

cholzee wrote:
...kung pangit ang pinapakita ng guy, pangit din ang makukuha nya sa girl hanggang pumangit ang relationship nila.

True. Pero I think you're trying to say na sa guy pa rin dapat magsisimula 'yung effort? Tama???
Standard na dapat 'yun diba?!

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Yup.

But the misconception of girls about that is "dapat puro effort, dapat puro effort!"

They tend to forget that a relationship does not always rely on the efforts of the boy.

What if the boy just wants to know first the girl deeper? Di pa nagsisimula manligaw.

And the girl asks for MORE EFFORT.

So ang dating sa guy, parang pinipilit na ligawan niya ung babae.

meron nmn kasi ngsasabeng todo effort sila pero d nmn halata

Subjective na yan.

Point is, a relationship, or even courting does not rely on efforts ALONE.

Some girls just don't understand that.

i need help about a girl! FAST HEHE

@joko,

what about her? mas maganda kung mga ate natin dito ang sasagot. usually point blank range answers ang makukuha mo pag sa girl ka nagtanong kasi they know what they want.

naturally, WE MEN ARE BORN STUPID.
we admit that.
we ask because we do not know. we ask because we want to know.
and we... are not mind-readers.

this simple thing has put many relationships in compromise.
pero kasi, nao-overlook ng IBANG girls MINSAN... na hindi kami manghuhula. pero wait lang, hindi ko po gine-genaralize. hindi ito battle of the sexes.

yep dapat talaga guy muna ang nagsisimula ng effort thingy. pero di ba, kung anong pwedeng ibigay, at kayang ibigay, sana maappreciate lalo na KUNG alam naman ng girl na taos-puso yung acts nung guy.

tayo naman boys, let's accept it, all they want is to see that they're special. they love surprises. iba't iba nga lang sila ng interest but i'm sure na may common things din sila. that's why we have to know them first, and let them know us in return.

bottom line: girls, just tell us what you want. at bahala na kaming guys gumawa ng paraan how to surprise you with it. yes, may paraan yun..

sa atin naman guys, magkaroon naman tayo ng initiative. that's all.

@cholzee
Amen!

Tama ka dun sa we are not mind-readers. Minsan kasi yung ibang girls tipong magagalit na lang bigla ng di namin alam ang dahilan. Kapag tinanong namin, sasabihin ang insensitive namin.

Quote ko lang ulit sinabi ni sir cholzee

naturally, WE MEN ARE BORN STUPID.
we admit that.
we ask because we do not know. we ask because we want to know.
and we... are not mind-readers.

in short, effort from both parties, give and take, at maging malawak ang pag-iisip! kaya nga malaking factor ang communication diba...

'yun lang po, I thank you...hahaha!

gusto ko natural lang... parang friends lang pero kayo na pala

dominick wrote:gusto ko natural lang... parang friends lang pero kayo na pala

haha! masaya yun
yung isa kong friend gusto niya ganun rin, based on friendship talaga, which is i think maganda naman talaga na ganun

maganda kasi ung foundation e

Chikselog wrote:@cholzee
Amen!

Tama ka dun sa we are not mind-readers. Minsan kasi yung ibang girls tipong magagalit na lang bigla ng di namin alam ang dahilan. Kapag tinanong namin, sasabihin ang insensitive namin.

Quote ko lang ulit sinabi ni sir cholzee

naturally, WE MEN ARE BORN STUPID.
we admit that.
we ask because we do not know. we ask because we want to know.
and we... are not mind-readers.

lalake pala ako?!! ganito ako e.. kaasar..)
im stupid.